Grandchild-Grandparent Bonding: 3 Tips for Parents 


Sometimes, getting these two generational ends of the family to develop a deep and meaningful relationship can be tricky. Still, it’s important enough to warrant multiple strategies.

So how do you get your child to bond with your parent? Here are 3 tips to start with.

Get Them Doing Stuff Together

Regularly getting them involved in activities means building a reliable foundation for a strong emotional connection. It’s about creating familiarity, trust, and deeper understanding over time.

So, you want to set up regular hangouts. Plan weekly or monthly visits – whether hosted in your home or at their assisted living facility – so that everyone has a designated time to connect in person; it’s something to look forward to. You also want to embrace tech. Use video calls or messaging apps to keep the communication flowing, especially if distance is a factor.

For example, make Saturdays the “Grandparent-Grandchild Day.” Pick an activity, be it gardening, or cooking up something special together. Consistency here is key for fostering a close bond. Or, try a monthly virtual game night. It’s an easy way to keep the connection strong even when physical visits aren’t possible.

Share Those Family Stories and Traditions

Swapping family stories and traditions means weaving a shared history, reinforcing a sense of identity, and a deep connection within the family.

So set up storytelling times. Designate specific moments during family get-togethers for sharing anecdotes, encouraging both the older and younger generations to get talking. In fact, capture it all. Create a family scrapbook, either physical or digital, to document those unique traditions. Throw in photos, stories, and mementos for an extra personal touch.

For example, consider a “Family Heritage Night.” Get everyone – grownups and kids – to pitch in with a story or tradition. It’s a collective effort that not only strengthens family bonds but also adds layers to your family’s story. Or, create a “Memory Jar” where family members drop in notes about memorable moments or traditions; an ongoing project that becomes a cherished keepsake.

Give Everyone Some Space

Balancing shared activities with everyone having their own thing is how you foster a well-rounded and harmonious family dynamic. 

So nurture hobbies. Encourage and support individual interests by providing the tools and motivation needed for personal hobbies. Also, create an environment where it’s okay for both grandparents and grandkids to express their need for personal space. Keep those lines of communication wide open.

If a grandkid is into something specific, like painting or playing an instrument, make sure they have what they need. It not only helps them grow individually but also shows respect for everyone’s unique identity within the family. Consider designating a “Solo Day” each month as well – where everyone gets to spend time pursuing their individual interests without interruption. 

The relationship between grandparent and grandchild can be a beautiful one and so it’s a good idea to facilitate bonding as a parent. Consider these tips. 

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